December 17, 2007

DaMn SeRiOuNeSs

“You are very casual about everything” someone commented. “You simply don’t care for anyone or anything”.

At first I didnt gave a damn point in thinking over it twice. But...he again repeated the same after some time.I got it he was quite serious about the comment. His seriouness made a casual person like me to spend sometime thinking on my friend's comment.

After giving it a thought over a plate of hot samosas and a cup of ginger tea I concluded..I dont need to be serious about everything under the sky.

I know what I am, infact I have become casual about almost everything (keeping very few things apart). What people around me didn’t notice is that it’s not about my behaviour, it has become a my way of living life. With experience I understood it doesn’t help much taking everything damn seriously, that’s what I believe. And ifff I do take anything seriously, I’ll never let anyone know it. Because i know how to deal with it. I just don’t want to pretend myself “a sincere chap” bcos I am not.
It creates lots of troubles, emotional, professionally and personal. So sincerity is not something I would like to make public. Besides I don’t feel like troubling myself for petty things and imaginary tensions. With around a quarter century experience on mother earth I felt that the problem with sincere people is that they get serious with any petty thing, without even thinking if it’s worth it or not.Dont you think its foolish. Later on such people find it difficult to maintain same sincerity as there’s no solid reason behind it.

I think a casual approach makes life much easier, problems are solved with a funny aptitude without much tension, it keeps your life cool and comfortable. I have found out that I can do much better in unwanted situation with being somewhat casual and with a little sense of humour without being getting too overburden with situations around me.

Its not that I am always casual about eveything. There are certain things about which I am quite sincere but I dont like to open the sincere guy inside me to each and everyone around me. You need to be one of those special friends around me to meet that sincere devil inside me.

Just in the end ...be cool yaar...always keep smiling..You know smiling is the most highly contagious. Smile is the best gift you can give it to anyone.

While sitting alone if you smile when you think of me or my poor jokes. Mine work is over.

-worstdevil

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